Showing posts with label beautiful. Show all posts
Showing posts with label beautiful. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Love yourself

So many of us looking in the mirror and don't like what we see. We scrolling trough social media and see this perfect figure women selfies having a perfect life and you wish you look like her, you would have her life, her confidence and you would be liked.
Let me tell you a story about a women(let's name her Ana)

We all are different and that's beautiful Ana said. She had to go a long way to finally understand that and say it loud.
Ana had a great life,she was happy successful in her career and never really tried put much effort in her looks but till one day everything changed. She was in the cafe with her colleagues and they was like women from social media they was nothing like Ana, they had a perfect bodies,perfect size 0,long,fake wavy hair,fake eyelashes,big lips,makeup done to perfection, nude stiletto nails, and all the attention they want. Everytime women walk past they would make a comments how fat she is, on what she is wearing,how she looks,she have no taste,she is ugly and it would carry on until see another women. Ana was shocked by this and she thought that's what probably everyone things about women who doesn't look like you see in social media. She went back home that evening and she was scrolling through her social media looking for random women who looked perfect in her eyes she staid awake all night searching on Internet- what is the perfect women, how perfect women looks,how to loose weight,how to do make up,how to take perfect selfies,what men likes in a women and etc. And she found a lot of info that she thought it was right for her. She spend all her spare time keep searching and looking at this women. Months went past and she changed,she lost weight,had a fake wavy hair,eyelashes,nails, used more and more makeup, start wearing revealing clothes and taking a 1000 of selfies but most importantly not just her looks changed she changed inside, she was like others,judgemental,snobby and she felt better then others. Her priorities in life changed she didn't care about her job anymore, she just was interested that others say how stunning,sexy she is, how many likes or messages she got from men. She would take 20 selfies with filters in one time and only post one that perfect one. She was spending more and more time on social media that she forgot to live her real life.
After a while she started to noticing that people don't take her serious anymore, that men looks at her like an object, all they want from her is one night fun. Women commenting that Ana looks fake, trying to hard to impress, her selfies fake etc.
She was on her profile reading a comments and messages from men and it was all about her looks nobody want to know her personality. Next morning she woke up and received the message from some women who said that she wish she looked like her. Ana looked in the mirror and though its not me I'm a different person and I'm tired of all of this, I'm trying to be somebody else because I want to fit in with others.
She took a selfie with her hair messed up,looking tired no make up and wearing a cozy pyjamas she send that selfie to that women with a text " all you seen is me trying to be somebody else coz I couldn't except the way I'm, this is me and I'm stopping to be someone I'm not and start being me,don't look at other people, don't try to be like them, be yourself because this is you, we all different and that is beautiful" she posted this too on her social media and she reached a lot of women. She start being herself again,she stopped wearing makeup,fake nails etc not because she thought it's fake but because she started to love herself the way she is and she was happy in her own skin she didn't needed shield to hide her natural beauty. And she was glowing and beautiful and others noticed too how beautiful she is inside out.